As we are deepening relationships, learning and growing we will continue to change. As we change we affect our environment and life becomes less predictable and more spontaneous.
When we meet new people we cannot know where they are in their personal journey and the changes that might be going on in their lives. We can’t yet know what they might need from us, or what we might receive from them.
It strikes me that we need a great deal of understanding of ourselves, and each other. Some of us are good at showing understanding to others and tend to value individuality and difference. Other people like everyone to be the same, preferably similar to them. But we are all on different paths in our journey of life so why do we judge others by our own journey? Understanding enables us to be more honest to the variety of choices and possibilities there are without needing to feel that our way is worst or best – just different. Appreciate your uniqueness and that of others.
Sometimes we give a lot of attention to visible differences such as race, gender, religion and disability, but hidden differences can have as big an impact on our daily experiences. Think of someone who hears voices or has certain food allergies and how they would experience the world differently to how they would be viewed from the outside. With understanding we can find empathy for others and empathy for ourselves. Studies show that when we are harsh on others we tend to be harsh on ourselves too.
Do you try to be understanding of the people you encounter in your daily life? Would you say you have too much understanding, too little or just enough?
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